Why We Chose Sand Instead of Flowers
When my grandmother passed, I wanted to do something meaningful to honor her. Flowers weren’t allowed at her funeral, and I felt at a loss — not because I needed something elaborate, but because I needed something intentional.
So I brought colorful sand.
We didn’t rehearse it. We didn’t even plan it. But one by one, my family took turns gently scattering the sand—each person choosing a color that reminded them of her. It was quiet. Simple. And beautiful.
That moment stayed with me. It wasn’t just about saying goodbye. It was about being together—doing something with our hands that helped our hearts let go.
Why Sand?
- It’s inclusive. Children, elders, friends—everyone can take part.
- It’s symbolic. Colors mean different things to different people—love, joy, peace, strength.
- It’s gentle. There’s something soothing about the way it falls—soft, quiet, calm.
- And it lasts. These aren’t just gestures. They’re memories in motion.
A New Kind of Tribute
Phyll The Love was born from that first scattering. And now, I help others create their own shared moments of remembrance—with sand that’s meant to be held, shared, and remembered.
Whether you use it at a graveside, during a cremation ceremony, or at a celebration of life, it’s a way to say: I remember. I honor. I’m here.
One color. One handful. One memory at a time.